
06-21-2007, 04:48 PM
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some advice plz
here goes: i have a friend who i have known for a long time. we keep in touch. well about 2 months ago she came to my work with one of her friends unknowingly to me that it was like a "that's the guy i was telling you about" kinda thing. so she introduces us. we start hanging out a little bit and it's going pretty good. about 2 weeks into it we have our first kiss. then a few days later she tells me she doesn't wanna get into a relationship right now which was fine by me. i didn't want to either. well she has a little girl just turned 1. about 2 weeks later still smoothly sailing she tells me she thinks i am wanting more than she is. my friend who introduces us tells me to just let the whole thing go and pretty much forget about her and she slacked off from calling/talking to me. a couple days after this i am out with some friends and apparently she is too. she calls me up and i was kinda excited to hear from her. but she said she was just calling to make sure i was not at the same place she was gonna be. then 2 hours later she calls and invites me and my friends over to where she is at. we go and everything seemed ok at first then she pretty much ignores me for most of the night. in the meantime she is dancing with another guy, i'm assuming trying to make me jealous. it did a little bit but i'm not one to go off the handle about things especially since we were not together or anything. so i proceeded to drink and have a good time. i danced with a couple of women and she got mad about it. she asked my friend who was with me repeatedly who the women i was dancing with were. then she pulls him onto the floor and he asked if she was trying to make me jealous and she got mad and went and sat down. then she said i was pissing her off and that i should leave and of course i didn't. i tried calling her later that night and she said i pissed her off and to not call back again so i didn't. then the next day i wake up to find a voicemail on my phone from her saying she needed to speak with me about something important so i called and she just asked how i was. i asked what was important that she needed to talk to me about and she said "nothing. i just wanted to hear you" its been like two weeks since i have heard from her. i don't know whether to call or what. neither of us have contacted eachother since and my/her friend doesn't really talk to me anymore either. i dunno what is going on. so please any advice on the matter would be appreciated. (FYI: no sex ever happened. all we ever did was kiss, we almost had sex one night but she said she wanted to but we shouldn't)
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