I have a question to all the experienced ladies out there who have sex after giving birth to baby.

I am wondering how long can you be sexual active like really horny after giving birth to the baby? I know woman lost a lot of estrogen after birth. may lost the sex drive. So how long it takes for you to be very sexual active again?

Will the sex still feeling the same? great same as before or worst???

can you give me some advice. hehehe I am just curious that is all. I heard some women lost sex drive up to 1 year in order to feel horny again. some women took only 6 months....how about you??? I know that you can have sex after everthing in your body heal back to normal, but what about the feeling of horny?? may be take longer for that right?

thank you for the input

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My understanding is that it really fluctuates from person to person. I usually had sex around 4-6 weeks after and it was good, but I was so exhausted.

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it took me a very long time, but it was more a mental thing than a physical thing. i was very very scared to have sex again, for a number of reasons.

But let me just tell you that at that point, sex is the last thing on your mind. Guys have no comprehension of the physical trauma that women go through while giving birth. IT HURTS, before, during and for a long time after.

In other words, if you are asking becuase you want to get some out of your partner...stop. she'll let you know, and it may be a while. Until then you just have to wait. Although getting up with the baby in the middle of the night will probably expediate the process....

thank you for the reply.

Yah, look at what you wrote kind of sad to think about it. Yah it hurt!!! But may be there are a lot of other thing to worry about at that time not only sex.

I had heard about this phrase from after birth mother they said, "Sex is the last thing in the mind" may be this is so true. But the time of waiting may be make your husband and boyfriend really frustrated right???? how can a man live without sex for a long period of time???

can some men tell me how you feel???? and how to satisfied yourself ?? only masturbate during those time???

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It was a full 6 weeks before I would let him touch me and that is only because he had watched the calendar so diligently and didn't pressure me before that.

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Doctors advise to wait six weeks until after your first exam after giving birth....just to make sure everything is alright and there is no infection.

Personally I waited the whole six weeks after my first for a variety of reasons but after the second it was three weeks. It all depends on each indiviual woman and how she heals and how rested she feels. Having a baby is not only hard work during the pregnancy and birthing process, it is very time consuming to care for your new baby and take care of yourself in the process. It is very difficult to get romantic when you are stealing sleep between feedings lol. It is also not conducive to having sex when any moment you expect the baby to start fussing. It does help though if daddy is involved in the care of the child for it not only helps you but gives them a heads up to how time consuming and tiring having a newborn is.......I would suggest that you just take it one day at a time, be patient and it will all fall in place.

you guys gave me a lot of wonderful information. I keep heard a lot of negative things about after birth. It kind of scares me a bit. We have some plan and we talk about all these things. my husband told me, may be we should wait for a few months, he said he doesn't want to hurt me or something. I told him what if he couln't wait. he said he must be very busy with the kid and working. we just talk and talk about this subject, kind of scare us a bit.

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In other countries like Far East Asia women are still held in LOWER esteem BUT in China, it’s a different story. Chinese women are much more aggressive and outspoken and held in Higher esteem.” I love Communist that provides males and females Equality and WOMEN’S Rights in China.

ya don't fuckin say. whoops. my bad.

I think I got the wrong signals a few weeks after the birth of our first child. We were messing around (this is a long time ago so I am not quite sure of the circumstance) anyway, she was under the bed clothes I was on top so there were a few blankets in between. Then she changed her mind while I had got a massive hard. so I stopped in my tracks, and somehow it may have beed a good thing she said no. Because motionless I laid on her and tried to surpress an orgasm (and failed - so tried to hide it). The thing about it, that I remember most about it, that in respect for her, I felt incredibly guilty for having the orgasm. I don't think she new.

I had to wait 15 years after birth before I had sex.

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