My advice is to not worry so much about what a woman wants you to do, but to be yourself and do what YOU want to do. (Within the boundaries of the law of course!) When I met my wife I never thought we'd end up together so I never held back the real me. I made no attempts to 'show' her the sides of me that would appeal to her the most. I was just me. Funny thing is, she felt the same way and behaved the same. It has been the best relationship I have had. Be yourself and if they don't like it, then you know that a LTR would never have worked out.

Good luck and try to keep your chin up... if a girl says how are you doing and you reply with, "My life is a dark cesspool of liquified rejection", chances are she's gonna find someone else to chat with, and fast. Think Happy Thoughts or Bart might turn you into a dog...

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In memory of my friend skip...
Go then, there are other worlds than these