Well I'm not really going to go into much detail about answering them but I can pretty much safely answer all of'em and that's a negatory on the b/f We did talk on the phone about ex's and what not (despite that being a date killer taboo topic but hey might as well clear the air, she brought it up in the first place).

As about being nervous...that's a possibility. I think everyone is a bit nervous whenever they actually go out on a date. But come on, coffee dates are pretty much sublime and low key. Ever since I started dating, I enjoy meeting up with people.

In a span of a yr now I think i've gone out 15-20 times now i think (didn't keep count or nothing) but out of those times, I've met now 3 real good friends. Like we're friends on the basis of I invite so and so to my bday and she does the same and we talk about everything including sex and anything sexually related. I even had the pleasure of massaging them (kept it clean just fyi) So dating is about meeting people and having fun. That's all it is from my perspective.

If she doesn't want to have fun, well too bad for her :P I plan too haha