She was trying to be kind. She's not interested. You need to focus on learning how to read the signs. When she right away, consistently, was not available she was trying to be polite. She needs to learn to just say, "I'm not interested" and walk away and stop worrying about being kind.
Btw there is not one particular sex or another that plays more mind games. Just like there is not one particular sex that is not adept at understanding when people are trying to avoid them.

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