I don't lie .... give me one ... make me cum ... and I'll tell you it's great!!!!

Hang in there FL, you never know what may happen.:)

Thanks....glad to hear someone wants me to practice on them.:hot: :slurp:

The guy in the chat room is under the impression that one can't know how to orally please a certain gender unless YOU are of that particular gender.

The "good" BJ doesn't come from gender specifications...because everyone has a mouth! It comes from experience. And if it's "not good", it's more than likely because of lack of experience, not because it's a man or woman. Now, if you include visualization, and you happen to be a gay man, having a woman wrap her lips around your cock would suck (pardon the pun!)! But, if said gay man was blindfolded and given a series of BJ's from experienced men and women, he'd more than likely not be able to tell the difference!

Go back to the chat room and tell that guy to stick that thought in his pipe...etc.!

very well put flutelady. a most succinct and perfect defintion.

and now for my two cents: i don't think most guys would lie but i'm sure there are a few who do. i would hope that if i was giving Bigbad a BJ and was messing it up he'd tell me. i haven't actually had that many cocks in my mouth, 4 to be exact and only let 1 of 'em cum in my mouth (no, you pervs :D not at the same time) so maybe i'm not a good judge. But i'll say this: all that matters is that the guy you are with enjoys it. i wouldn't think that every guy would love the same technique. and to take that one step farther, it only matters to the one you are with if there is a potential (or already existing) commitment (i.e. the sure bet that there would be more BJs :D). if i ever gave a crappy BJ to a one-night-stand i don't think either one of us would care enough to make any kind of comments, espesially a how-to-suck-better-cock-tip or a "gee, whats-yer-name, that was the worst BJ of my life".

I saw alot of Great response's here, but I think Flute Lady really hit it. Communication has always been a biggie between two people. If you can't communicate with your partner you won't enjoy life.

Larry..... your "Giving thanks and Praise" was very cute. I've been sitting here trying to think of one I would say, but I just don't have a way with words like you. :)

As for a man lieing about it, he better not, it would bruise my ego and he would never get another. :mad:

I've never had a bad BJ - they are all good, even if it's her first time it's great.

I feel asleep when giving my man a bj~~~~~~had been working nightshift!
bit him in my sleep!!!
he still lets me go down~~~~#but makes sure I stay awake! hehehehehe!

Good god almight, girl! Gotta give you credit for being willing to try when that tired ;). Show's your generous nature CA.

I agree Ginger. That really shows love in either gender.

Coffee for celticangel, please...and hurry!

I'm not so sure I'd call it lying if a guy tells a lady he enjoyed it when she gave him a blowjob but some are definitely better than others. I agree with a sentiment listed earlier that in a guy's mind there really aren't bad blowjobs. I know I'm always happy to receive one even if it's not really my favorite act. For me, I'm content as long as the lady lets me go down on her. If she does the same for me that's great but I really do like to give more than to receive. Actually, I've only had a couple of women that were able to make me cum via a blowjob. Not really sure why that is but I've always been that way. Given that, I still really don't consider the times that I did cum from a blowjob to have been any better than the times that I didn't cum. Just different.