Eros, dunno babe when I was younger (yeah yeah yeah I'm not very old whatever...) I was very shy and very timid in bed, now I like to see just how far my partner will let me go before they stop me....
Check your prostate? (marla singer in Fight Club)

Always
Kyttn

I guess the eyes are the very first thing that attracts me to a woman. But once you get close and I can catch a whiff of her scent, that can close the deal. I can close my eyes and just smell her, you can almost see what she is going to be like. About 90% accurate so far.

I am definitely on the dance bandwagon.... If you can thrill me on the dance floor odds are you can thrill me in bed.

Good one...I agree with lots of these especially the dance thing, Lilith's answer is good too, in the kiss, but that is already across a line I am thinking a before any touching type of indicator

I never had the opportunity to sleep with the guy...but I guess I'll post this anyway...

The star goalie on the UW's hockey team was uncharacteristically sexy...great hair (not the stereotypical unkempt hockey hair), sexy goatee, etc...I've watched many other hockey games before, but the way he'd do his stretching was such a turn on for me...something about the way he could do the splits and contort himself into all these other puck-stopping postitions still makes me think to this day how great he could probably be in bed for trying out a multitude of amazing positions. :fly: I made it to every home game the entire 4 years he played for us, a lot of times just to watch that ;)

ok at a pixies party i would be in trouble i dont dance
but i think them looking in your eyes paying atenshon
to you and you are only as good in bed as your partner
so if they are a good listener the will be a good lover

For me it's the mans hands. Large strong hands, long slinder fingers. Good to dream of what those hands can do.

bright eyes, genuine smile , a strong hug~~~~~~~and a big motorbike(and looks good in leathers!)

Since I didn't answer this Post when it was first Posted I will now. ..................For Me................It's in the Eyes, the Smile, the Warmth and Finally............THE KISS. Nothing makes my heart pound harder than a Hot Smoldering Kiss.

There must be some reason that ladies like BAD BOYS, don't you think?

Oh Lilith reading this thread has given me butterflies in my tummy! ;)

I wrote a really long reply to this, but have deleted it for fear of making someone else I know as nervous as me when he reads it.

I'll reply to this next week, I think. :D

Dancing is a good way for me to tell, but it pales to the way she treats others. One thing that has been my observation, if a girl acts like she will be a freak in public, don't count on it. It's the 'quiet' ones that get you every time.

Nuelaan~ You have a great point!!! I would never be at all attracted to someone who was rude to say, the waitress or bartender. They could send out all the other great vibes, even dance yummy, but rudeness and acting superior is an indicator as well.........a flashing red light!!!!

I agree with skip........A "before the deed" indicator is to see him dance. I used to date a drummer who sucked right out loud at dancing and I still can't explain that to this day! It's the beat of the drum that holds the magic in a dance! I feel the drums in my soul when I dance! How can a drummer not be able to dance? And he was an amazing drummer regardless of the fact that he was deaf in his left ear (the result of a childhood target practicing accident). So when I see a man who can dance........I have this urge......this overpowering urge........to cut right in and move with his moves. Soooooooooooooooo sensual! I have gotten into a few tight situations when I did succumb to my urge to cut in. The girlfriend (or dance partner) usually never likes it! LMAO! But I can tell...............Damn, he'll be good in bed!!!!!!!

I also love to watch movie kisses...........screen close-ups of actors kissing. The two that stick out in my mind the most are......Tom Cruise in "Top Gun".....and (this isn't really a movie but a Christmas video)......Jon Bon Jovi kissing Cindy Crawford in.......oh shit!....I forgot the name of the song.......damn......but you'll know it when you see it! LMAO!

Anyway.............a kiss is just a kiss...........unless you know how to romance with a kiss. That's the secret!